The cycle starts simple, for instance you don’t pay off the full amount on your credit card because you have to settle an exorbitant dentist’s bill that the (insert expletive here) medical aid wouldn’t cover.
Some months later you miss a payment on your car because the debt on your credit card has climbed to the point where it’s a struggle even to make the minimum payment, let alone pay the full amount.
Another few months later you take out a personal loan at a prohibitively high interest rate to get your arrear car payments up to date, after some threatening letters from the vehicle finance company. THE CYCLE GOES ON AND ON AND BECOMES DEEPER WITH EACH DAY!
There’s only one respectable way to break the spiral, and the sooner you do it, the easier it is. Swallow your pride, own up to your mistakes and make amends.
• Swallow your pride and admit you are in trouble - This is the first and hardest step. Admit that you are having financial difficulties and understand that there's no shame in it.
• Determine the depth of the you’re in - Figure out whether, with a determined effort, you can climb out of the hole yourself, or whether you are in so deep that you need the help of a Debt Counselor. If such a large portion of your income is going towards servicing debt that you don’t have enough for the basics, such as food and transport, you probably cannot do it alone.
• Do your homework. Going back over a few months, make a detailed list of your income and expenses for each month, grouping your expenses into debt repayments, essential expenses, and non-essential expenses.
• Draw up a frugal-living budget. You can’t be killing an ant and be consuming an elephant! Cut back on the non-essentials until expenses equal income. Then you need to cut some more – even a saving of R500 a month will help.
• Now tackle the debt. Put the R500 (or more) you’re saving into paying off the smallest debt with a high interest rate. This is likely to be a store account, a credit card account, or a personal loan. It may take several months to pay off the account, which we’ll call account A. Once you’ve finished paying off A, take the whole amount you were paying on A (the regular repayment plus the R500), and add it to your regular repayments on account B, another account with a high interest rate. When B is paid off, you will have an even larger amount to pay off account C: in addition to the regular payment on C, you add the R500 plus what would have been your regular payments on A and B. Get it? On each successive account the amount you have available will be more than on the previous one. So you’re turning the vicious cycle into a virtuous one.
Once you’re at a debt level you can live with (the remaining debts should be only the long-term, low-interest ones such as vehicle loans and your home loan, and realistically their combined repayments shouldn’t be more than a third of your income), you can switch to a “maintenance diet”, by still trying to be as frugal as possible while indulging yourself and your family now and again.
At this stage you might even begin something that you never thought possible: investing.

